Super size it! Bigger cars, rims, houses and even bigger anatomy parts seem to be more than just a trend. In the era of “bling”, showing off what you have, it seems more is better. That’s because more is better, especially when it comes to attracting your life partner.

But more doesn’t mean gaudy. Is it your turn to snag the perfect guy? Do you want the insider secrets most of your girlfriends don’t know? Once you learn these secrets, your Mr. Right may be nearer than you know!

Relationships won’t weather the storm without a strong foundation. So take your time and lay a great foundation.

Appearances are extremely important, although many won’t admit it. However, physical appearances should not be the basis of any relationship. Women should be conscious how they present themselves. Lips painted with shiny lip gloss, pushed up cleavage, and full hips are appealing. Nonetheless, these attributes are temporary place holders. The wrapper will never substitute for the candy itself no matter how much alcohol consumed nor how dark the setting. The worst thing for a woman is to be labeled as mere eye candy. Eye candy will suffice until he sees what he considers a more attractive image.

Contrary to popular opinion, there are men, black men, whom absolutely esteem intelligence. Not all men are intimidated by strong women. Women who are broadly educated on a number of topics are in great demand. There aren’t too many men who wouldn’t be impressed with a lady that can discuss everything from the politics to the new direction of hip-hop.

Thanks to Claire Huxtable, progressive women are hot! This doesn’t mean women need a doctorate and a briefcase, just an open mind. There are men who want you to teach them new things and broaden their horizons. Arouse a man’s mind and the rest will follow. Also, you will inspire your man to strive for more and become a better man. Unaware to many women, men do brag about successful women. And just like women, men want to be with women who have themselves together spiritually, financially, as well as physically. More is better.

Want to know another great secret? Find out what your man is into and then do some homework if the subject matter is unfamiliar to you. You don’t have to become an expert on the subject, just a few facts will flatter him. This will let him know that you value what he finds interesting. Give your relationship the same effort, if not more, you give your career. Barring none, a relationship is the hardest job you will ever have. But it doesn’t have to be if you take the time to learn your man. More is better.

Women, ready for the secret no man will ever tell you! Don’t never, ever, ever, give too much of yourself too fast! Men want all your, time, undivided attention, affection, and whatever else you have to offer and you should give it to him. But make him work for everything!

By: Byron Griffin